Using Eva viberator, The Hands-Free Vibrator, During Sex

For those who enjoy versatility, this vibrator features one non-vibrating side and one vibrating side — both great for vaginal and anal pleasure. It looks luxurious, and you can play with three vibration patterns and three power levels. “Pleasure and orgasm are really good for you because they release hormones that reduce stress and anxiety,” says Zar. For most women, the clitoris is the gateway to orgasm — and this toy is made specifically for that pleasure part.

You can use a palm vibrator to stimulate the clitoris or vulva, wrap it around the shaft of a penis, hold it against the nipples, cup the testicles with it, or do pretty much anything else that comes to mind. As long as the vibrator stays on the outside of your body (not inside the vagina or anus), you’re golden. We-Vibe’s flagship product is meant to be “worn” during intercourse to provide some extra stimulation for both partners, though it can level up masturbation or non-penetrative types of sex, too. This latest version is different from previous iterations in that its internal portion is shaped like an “O ,” which helps the toy stay in place better during sex.

In addition to vibrating, clit suckers use air-suction technology to mimic the sensation of oral sex. Womanizer is a go-to brand in the sucker space—and of all the brand’s models, the waterproof Premium 2 is the best, Marla Renee Stewart, a certified sex educator and founder of Velvet Lips Sex Education, tells SELF. Just five inches long, this budget-friendly vibe packs the intensity of a wand in the petite size of a bullet.

The Point Plus allows you to experiment with different textures and vibrations, thanks to the included sleeves. Place them over the smooth silicone bullet (which boasts 20 powerful modes) and enjoy the new sensations on your clit. SELF’s former commerce editor adores this vibe from sexual wellness company Maude, which blends an egg, finger, and wand vibrator in one.

This area is extremely sensitive and a prime spot to invest a little more attention, but the previous Tenuto’s solution was … less than ideal. The Tenuto Mini is most similar to a vibrating cock ring, the kind that wraps around the base of a penis and has a small vibrating motor at the top and, sometimes, the bottom. But while those devices are a dime a dozen and typically flimsy, the Tenuto Mini is rigid, with a small gap at the bottom. A few years ago, I tried out MysteryVibe’s unique Tenuto vibrator and found it somewhat wanting. Creating a vibrator that helps its user maintain an erection, stimulates neglected parts of the body, and is mutually beneficial for both the user and their partner was a noble goal, but one the company struggled to achieve.